Talk

Living as an Exile

Jacob Harkey
Jacob Harkey
November 24, 2024

Join us this week as Jacob Harkey walks us through 1 Peter 1, teaching us God’s desire for us as we live in a world that is not our home. He helps us see who we are as believers, how we are meant to operate, and why it’s worth it.

Key Takeaway

We are chosen exiles dispersed in the middle of where God wants us, not hiding, but engaging with the culture in a way that offers them a vision of a better way.

Throughout history, God’s people who walk in obedience to God’s Word stand out. In 1 Peter, we are given insight into who we are as believers, how we are meant to live, and why it’s worth it.

The book starts with “elect exiles of the dispersion.” The "elect" are God’s chosen people. Before you were born, God knew that you would be chosen. No matter where you fall on the doctrine of predestination, in scripture, the idea of being chosen is meant to be a comfort. There’s no peace like the assurance that God chose you because He loved you and wanted to, not because of anything you did.

To be an exile means you are a temporary resident, present alongside a resident alien. You are other than the culture, but you’re among it. An exile doesn’t enjoy the privileges of a citizen.

Often, we will try to blend in so much that we lose all Christian distinctiveness or try to keep the culture at arm’s length and make zero impact. The exile, on the other hand, is passing through but not passing by. Home is elsewhere, but this is home for now.

Believers are exiles because we are chosen and, therefore, different. There is no dual citizenship in the Kingdom of God. If you are His, then that’s where your allegiance lies. Exiles stand out and eventually are seen as appealing and beautiful.

The dispersion was when the Jews were scattered beyond Israel. In 1 Peter, he uses it as a metaphor, saying that God always uses His people as foreigners in strange lands: Daniel in Babylon, Moses in Egypt, Peter and Paul in Rome We are part of a plan bigger than ourselves, and God reminds us that we make it through hostile lands depending on Him. We can trust God’s purpose because of His character.

Our new identity in Christ should lead to new activity. So, how do we live as exiles? We set our hope fully on the grace that will come with Jesus when He returns. Hope is grounded expectation. Don’t get too attached to this world. We hold only to the hope of Jesus to come. The highs and lows of life are a shadow of a better life to come.

We set our hope fully because He is worthy. Created things cannot bear the weight only our Creator was meant to hold; there’s no sure thing but Jesus. We have full hope by preparing our minds for action and being sober-minded. We are ready for battle. Being sober-minded is having the mental clarity to make choices that are aligned with God’s will. See sin for what it is.

The second way we live this out is by being holy in our conduct. Being holy is conforming our thinking and behavior to God’s character in a way that sets us apart from those who believe differently. Our vertical commitment to Christ changes our horizontal actions. Holiness is grounded in relational language. We’re obedient children. We should want to imitate our Father. We don’t revert back to who we were with our old patterns of thinking and passions. When we compromise our holiness, we forget the hope that we have. We don’t need compartmentalized Christians; those are just hypocrites.

Why is living like this worth it? Peter tells us to conduct ourselves in fear of the Lord. We are loved and chosen by God, but He is the impartial Judge. Reverence of God is a comfort because Jesus paid our judgment for us so we don’t have to face the terror of His wrath. We know our old lives were futile, but we were ransomed from that life through Jesus. He was raised from the dead for us, so we know that we will have resurrection as well.

We are chosen exiles dispersed in the middle of where God wants us. We are not hiding but engaging with the culture in a way that offers them a vision of a better way. Take hold of hope and live a life worthy of the calling you have received.

"When we compromise our holiness we forget the hope that we have."
Jacob Harkey

Discussion Questions

  1. Do you feel like you are a distant foreigner in a land you don't belong in?
  2. How does Peter start his letter in 1 Peter 1:1?
  3. What does it mean to be the elect? See 1 Peter 1:2.
  4. Jacob talked about immigrants and tourists and how both have a very different way of viewing the culture. How is an exile completely different? What is their view of their home?
  5. What does "the dispersion" reference? How did Peter use it in his letter? Give some examples that are in the Bible.
  6. Read 1 Peter 1:13. How does the believer define hope? What are we putting our hope in fully?
  7. How can we prepare our minds for action? What is your mind focused on? What is controlling your thoughts? Is it the Word of God or something else?
  8. Define what it means to be sober-minded. What’s intoxicating your mind? Are you drunk on shame, anger, or fear?
  9. According to 1 Peter 1:16, what are we called to? What does this mean in practical everyday life?
  10. Why is it worth living the life of a chosen exile? See 1 Peter 1:18-21.

Scripture References

1Peter, an apostle of Jesus Christ,

To God’s elect, exiles scattered throughout the provinces of Pontus, Galatia, Cappadocia, Asia and Bithynia, 2who have been chosen according to the foreknowledge of God the Father, through the sanctifying work of the Spirit, to be obedient to Jesus Christ and sprinkled with his blood:

2who have been chosen according to the foreknowledge of God the Father, through the sanctifying work of the Spirit, to be obedient to Jesus Christ and sprinkled with his blood:

Grace and peace be yours in abundance.

13Therefore, with minds that are alert and fully sober, set your hope on the grace to be brought to you when Jesus Christ is revealed at his coming.
14As obedient children, do not conform to the evil desires you had when you lived in ignorance.
15But just as he who called you is holy, so be holy in all you do;
16for it is written: “Be holy, because I am holy.”
17Since you call on a Father who judges each person’s work impartially, live out your time as foreigners here in reverent fear.
18For you know that it was not with perishable things such as silver or gold that you were redeemed from the empty way of life handed down to you from your ancestors,
19but with the precious blood of Christ, a lamb without blemish or defect.
20He was chosen before the creation of the world, but was revealed in these last times for your sake.
21Through him you believe in God, who raised him from the dead and glorified him, and so your faith and hope are in God.

Jacob Harkey
Jacob Harkey
Spiritual Formation Director at Passion City Church, Washington D.C.