Talk

Inconvenient Obedience

Ben Stuart
October 31, 2021

Ben Stuart shows the difference between grasping at power at all costs and trusting God to give you power in His own way and timing. In both circumstances, it comes down to obedience. Through looking at Saul and David, Ben Stuart teaches what God desires in our hearts.

Key Takeaway

The Lord has taken care of you and the The Lord will take care of you. Let Him work it out in His Will and His Way. You may not understand the mystery of providence, but that doesn't release you from obedience. Don't do evil in the name of good. Trust Him.

1) 1 Samuel 22- The selfishness of Saul at Nob and the selflessness of David at Keilah. It's a dangerous thing for an insecure person to have power.

Saul complains about his tribe. Victimhood doesn't look good on anyone. Whining is anti-worship. It's saying that God can't be trusted, and we think we can do better.

Saul conspires to go after David. He does this because he has surrounded himself with a bunch of "friends" that justified him doing whatever he wanted to do. Beware of yes-men. They are a sign of insecure leadership.

Saul kills the priests at Nob because they helped David. He obliterated the entire population of a group of people that honored the Lord. The irony is that he did not do this to the Amalekites when the Lord had directed him to because he wanted what he thought was best for himself. (1 Samuel 15). Saul wants power, and if honoring God gets in the way, he blows God off.

David, on the other hand, is selfless and helps defend Keilah at the Lord's request.

Kingly character uses power to save those in need.

Inconvenient obedience is better than convenient disobedience. He and his men go in to fight and then leave, traveling in the wilderness, where Jonathan encourages David in the Lord.

Saul is a destroyer. David is a rescuer. Saul complains he has no knowledge. David receives knowledge from God. Saul has a yes-man in Doeg. David has a true friend in Jonathan, who points him to God.

2) 1 Samuel 24. Seizing power in an ungodly way is wrong. We do right to wait on the Lord.

How do you know the difference between providence and temptation? Perceived providence never overrides the revealed obedience.

David has the opportunity to kill Saul but is convicted, so he only cuts off a corner of his robe with his sword. A sword is meant to signify death...but that would mean David would have to murder Saul. We can't deny the explicit text of Scripture and say, "Well, the ends justify the means." No, there needs to be integrity and honor in the process as well as the end product.

David instead spares Saul's life and then shows Saul what he had done, explaining that he was never his enemy.

An ounce of truth beats a ton of presumption.

Saul then confesses that David is better than he. Kingly character is hard to deny. People will rage against it because it feels like condemnation to them, but they can't deny that the kingly character comes from a different place.

The robe holds special significance as it works its way through 1 Samuel. Hannah knits robes for Samuel as God was reestablishing His prophets, which Samuel was one of the greatest. (1 Samuel 2:19) Saul rips Samuel's robe after he sinned, representing the kingdom being taken from Saul. (1 Samuel 15:27-28) Jonathan, knowing the kingdom will not be passed to him, gives his own robe to David, who will succeed as king. (1 Samuel 18:4) So David knows that when he takes his sword to cut Saul's robe, it's a symbol of death coming to Saul's authority.

3) 1 Samuel 25- David is in danger of looking like Saul.

When David asks Nabal to share in the festivities after all the good they have done for him, Nabal is selfish with his power. David becomes irrational and quickly forms a band of men to go and take revenge on Nabal. Nabal means fool, and his wife, Abigail, knows this, so she puts her own life on the line to save the lives of all involved by stepping in between judgment and ignorance. Abigail approaches David humbly and reminds him of all the ways the Lord has been with him.

The "bundle" references how the shepherd would count tiny rocks into a bundle to keep track of their sheep. It is a picture of the Lord being David's shepherd. He is taking care of him, and there is no reason to stoop to the level of his enemy. She, knowing of David's heroics, speaks of God hurling his enemies away like a sling. She was reminding him that he overcame Goliath and he was going to get past Saul, so it's not wise to have the blood of a fool on his hands.

God will accomplish His purposes in His Will and His Way. Do not do evil in the name of good. Trust God.

David has the humility to listen to Abigail. He thanks her for her wisdom and discernment. When Abigail tells Nabal what happened, the Bible describes his heart becoming like a stone, and he dies. Why would 1 Samuel 25:37 specify his "heart became like a stone"? The Lord is pointing out to David that what he was going to try and fix on his own and therefore compromise his integrity was a stone and He hurled Nabal out like a sling. We need to trust God and stop trying to work salvation by our own hand.

"Judge not the Lord by feeble sense, but trust Him for His grace. Behind a frowning providence He hides a smiling face."
William Cooper

Discussion Questions

  1. What are the three things Saul does as a response to his insecurity over David escaping his murder attempts?
  2. Ben Stuart noted that while absolute power can corrupt, power itself is not inherently corrupt. Power accelerates what is already present in you. What is currently present in you that could lead to corruption?
  3. Saul had a yes-man and David had a true friend whose wounds he could trust. Who do you surround yourself with?
  4. Are there people you know you need to distance yourself from because they do not have your best interest at heart? Have you thanked your friends that do?
  5. How do you know the difference between providence and temptation?
  6. In what ways have you manipulated a situation and called it God's providence when really you were just justifying what you wanted to do?
  7. Ben Stuart stated, "You can forgive, but you don't have to trust them." How does the book of Proverbs support that?
  8. Do you have an Abigail in your life that will remind you of God's faithfulness and encourage you to trust Him to work everything out in his timing?
  9. When someone points you back to God when you are set on going against Him, do you respond in humility and gratitude or do you push back?
  10. How does this message point to Jesus?

Scripture References

The

Lord
Rejects Saul as King

1Samuel said to Saul, “I am the one the

Lord
sent to anoint you king over his people Israel; so listen now to the message from the
Lord
. 2This is what the
Lord
Almighty says: ‘I will punish the Amalekites for what they did to Israel when they waylaid them as they came up from Egypt. 3Now go, attack the Amalekites and totally destroy all that belongs to them. Do not spare them; put to death men and women, children and infants, cattle and sheep, camels and donkeys.’ ”

4So Saul summoned the men and mustered them at Telaim—two hundred thousand foot soldiers and ten thousand from Judah. 5Saul went to the city of Amalek and set an ambush in the ravine. 6Then he said to the Kenites, “Go away, leave the Amalekites so that I do not destroy you along with them; for you showed kindness to all the Israelites when they came up out of Egypt.” So the Kenites moved away from the Amalekites.

7Then Saul attacked the Amalekites all the way from Havilah to Shur, near the eastern border of Egypt. 8He took Agag king of the Amalekites alive, and all his people he totally destroyed with the sword. 9But Saul and the army spared Agag and the best of the sheep and cattle, the fat calves and lambs—everything that was good. These they were unwilling to destroy completely, but everything that was despised and weak they totally destroyed.

10Then the word of the

Lord
came to Samuel: 11“I regret that I have made Saul king, because he has turned away from me and has not carried out my instructions.” Samuel was angry, and he cried out to the
Lord
all that night.

12Early in the morning Samuel got up and went to meet Saul, but he was told, “Saul has gone to Carmel. There he has set up a monument in his own honor and has turned and gone on down to Gilgal.”

13When Samuel reached him, Saul said, “The

Lord
bless you! I have carried out the
Lord
’s instructions.”

14But Samuel said, “What then is this bleating of sheep in my ears? What is this lowing of cattle that I hear?”

15Saul answered, “The soldiers brought them from the Amalekites; they spared the best of the sheep and cattle to sacrifice to the

Lord
your God, but we totally destroyed the rest.”

16“Enough!” Samuel said to Saul. “Let me tell you what the

Lord
said to me last night.”

“Tell me,” Saul replied.

17Samuel said, “Although you were once small in your own eyes, did you not become the head of the tribes of Israel? The

Lord
anointed you king over Israel. 18And he sent you on a mission, saying, ‘Go and completely destroy those wicked people, the Amalekites; wage war against them until you have wiped them out.’ 19Why did you not obey the
Lord
? Why did you pounce on the plunder and do evil in the eyes of the
Lord
?”

20“But I did obey the

Lord
,” Saul said. “I went on the mission the
Lord
assigned me. I completely destroyed the Amalekites and brought back Agag their king. 21The soldiers took sheep and cattle from the plunder, the best of what was devoted to God, in order to sacrifice them to the
Lord
your God at Gilgal.”

22But Samuel replied:

“Does the

Lord
delight in burnt offerings and sacrifices

as much as in obeying the

Lord
?

To obey is better than sacrifice,

and to heed is better than the fat of rams.

23For rebellion is like the sin of divination,

and arrogance like the evil of idolatry.

Because you have rejected the word of the

Lord
,

he has rejected you as king.”

24Then Saul said to Samuel, “I have sinned. I violated the

Lord
’s command and your instructions. I was afraid of the men and so I gave in to them. 25Now I beg you, forgive my sin and come back with me, so that I may worship the
Lord
.”

26But Samuel said to him, “I will not go back with you. You have rejected the word of the

Lord
, and the
Lord
has rejected you as king over Israel!”

27As Samuel turned to leave, Saul caught hold of the hem of his robe, and it tore. 28Samuel said to him, “The

Lord
has torn the kingdom of Israel from you today and has given it to one of your neighbors—to one better than you. 29He who is the Glory of Israel does not lie or change his mind; for he is not a human being, that he should change his mind.”

30Saul replied, “I have sinned. But please honor me before the elders of my people and before Israel; come back with me, so that I may worship the

Lord
your God.” 31So Samuel went back with Saul, and Saul worshiped the
Lord
.

32Then Samuel said, “Bring me Agag king of the Amalekites.”

Agag came to him in chains. And he thought, “Surely the bitterness of death is past.”

33But Samuel said,

“As your sword has made women childless,

so will your mother be childless among women.”

And Samuel put Agag to death before the

Lord
at Gilgal.

34Then Samuel left for Ramah, but Saul went up to his home in Gibeah of Saul. 35Until the day Samuel died, he did not go to see Saul again, though Samuel mourned for him. And the

Lord
regretted that he had made Saul king over Israel.


Ben Stuart
Ben Stuart
Ben Stuart is the pastor of Passion City Church D.C. Prior to joining Passion City Church, Ben served as the executive director of Breakaway Ministries on the campus of Texas A&M. He also earned a master’s degree in historical theology from Dallas Theological Seminary. He and his wife, Donna, live to inspire and equip people to walk with God for a lifetime.