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How to Dethrone Our Idols and Live Free

Jake Daghe
November, 16, 2023

Read part one of our The Idols In Our Lives series, What is Idolatry in Our Modern-Day Society?


“Whatever your heart clings to and confides in, that is really your God, your functional savior. ” Martin Luther

We ended our first piece on this topic of idolatry by looking at a passage from 1 John 2:15-17. 

Do not love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For all that is in the world—the desires of the flesh and the desires of the eyes and pride of life[c]—is not from the Father but is from the world. And the world is passing away along with its desires, but whoever does the will of God abides forever.

We noted that John opens this text by giving us a short command that sums up the scope of idolatry: misguided worship and the elevation of our affections for things that aren’t of or from God. He tells us not to love the world or the things in the world. It’s okay to love things, it’s just not healthy or helpful for our spiritual walk with Jesus to place our affections in what can’t truly satisfy us.

There are serious consequences of letting idolatry infiltrate our hearts and remain in our souls. That’s what John ends this text by reminding us. Our idols, the things we are tempted to find such significance and hope in, are fading away. And if our lives mirror what we worship, then a heart full of idols is in danger of fading away as well. 

The Dangers of Idolatry and the Rewards of True Worship

Idolatry, or the worship of idols, has become so familiar and entrenched in the background of our society that we rarely stop to consider the danger of this heart practice we have let occupy a central position in our lives.

It’s as if we have brought a lion into our bedroom but insist on treating it like a kitten. 

In Colossians 3:5-6, Paul writes:

Put to death therefore what is earthly in you: sexual immorality, impurity, passion, evil desire, and covetousness, which is idolatry. On account of these the wrath of God is coming.

In chapter 44 of Isaiah, the prophet provides a fantastic examination of the folly of idolatry.  He concludes in verse 20 that for the man who worships idols…

He feeds on ashes; a deluded heart has led him astray, and he cannot deliver himself or say, “Is there not a lie in my right hand?”

What’s the danger of idolatry? Not only do we not give God the glory He rightfully deserves. But we also run the risk of deluding our hearts, being led astray by false promises and false hopes, and ultimately, failing to find deliverance in that which we trusted could save us. 

When we think about idolatry through this lens and understand that our misdirected worship has devastating consequences, it can be difficult to imagine how we get pulled into this narrative time and time again. However, idolatry is steeped in deception and saturated with false promises.

Commentator and author David Brooks highlights this idea well when he writes:

“At first, idols give you everything and ask nothing. But at the end, idols ask everything and give you nothing.”

Like Spurgeon said above, the earth and all its treasures, the riches, glories, or pleasures of this world are all fleeting. They might initially look golden and glitzy as an alluring light, but all are built upon an eventual emptiness. All are lacking the ability to truly satisfy a heart that longs for eternal joy. 

Perhaps the most detrimental aspect of idolatry is this slow deterioration of fulfilling joy.

When we anchor our affections in those things which were never meant to truly delight us, we exchange the eternal riches of God with a facsimile, a lie, a piece of fool’s gold.

This is what Paul recognized as being true of the Romans when he wrote in chapter 1:21-23

“For although they knew God, they did not honor him as God or give thanks to him, but they became futile in their thinking, and their foolish hearts were darkened. Claiming to be wise, they became fools, and exchanged the glory of the immortal God for images resembling mortal man and birds and animals and creeping things.”

When this exchange is made, when idolatry becomes the leading practice of our hearts, our thoughts become futile and our hearts become darkened. We become unaware of the joy and light that abounds through Jesus, as the Apostle John tells us that “in him (Jesus) was life, and that life was the light of men” (John 1:4). 

These dangers are real, but they don’t need to become a reality for you or for me. For those who have been saved and adopted into the family of God, who have the first fruits of the Holy Spirit, these sons and daughters can do what Paul writes and “put to death the deeds of the body” (Romans 8:13). 

If we do this, we will live. More than that, we will be positioned to offer God our very lives as living sacrifices (Romans 12), a spiritual worship that aligns with the invitation from Jesus in John 4 to the Samaritan woman at the well to “worship God in spirit and in truth.”

You have a unique and specific invitation to worship the King of Kings and Lord of Lords.

But if you spend your limited time here on planet Earth crafting and calling out to your idols, you’ll run the risk of missing your opportunities to glorify what truly matters as your voice will get weaker, your eyes more clouded, your ears more dimmed, until one day, you become like what you worship.

This isn’t a matter of preference or particulars. This is a battle for the very thriving of your faith and your followership of Jesus.

Dethroning our Idols by Savoring the Savior

God commanded Israel to have no other gods before Him and to make no images (both with physical materials and imitating things of earth, including ourselves) not to be tyrannical, but because He knows that He is the best thing we could ever pursue. He knows that in Him dwells all life, all joy, all satisfaction, all hope, all goodness. He wants us to experience that, but in order to do so, we must treasure Him above all other counterfeit gods that claim to be likewise fulfilling.

Instead of forcing our obedience, in love, He provided a way of adoption to sonship and daughtership. Instead of neglecting our needs the first time we rebelled against Him, He gave up His greatest treasure. Himself. He did not spare His own Son, but gave Him up for us all.

How marvelous. How wonderful. How convincing of His character and worthiness?

By His Spirit and through His blood, we can dethrone our idols and shift our affections from the passions and desires of our former ways that only lead toward empty and abandoned hopes. We can move our loves towards the arms of the One who taught us the greatest truths about love, our Savior and Lord Jesus Christ.

All that sounds nice in theory, but theory alone doesn’t dethrone idols from the center of our hearts. We need to couple our theology with tangible, practical steps that help us recenter our affections on our King.

If you want to dethrone your idols, here are five steps toward finding new freedom:

  1. Confess and repent from lesser worship.
  2. Safeguard against slippery slopes.
  3. Prioritize a pure and personal relationship with Jesus.
  4. Pray short prayers consistently throughout your day.
  5. Implement a habit of reflection on and gratitude for God’s goodness.

How can you move something off the throne of your heart if you aren’t willing to acknowledge and confess that there is an imposter currently seated where Christ should be ruling?

So tell God that you know and are grieved by the idols you’ve let become too comfortable in your heart. Then once you confess and repent, think of practical safeguards that you can establish that will help you not fall back into those easy-to-desire traps. Maybe you set up an accountability partner. Maybe you remove a physical item from your room or house. Put up safeguards.

With safeguards up, you can concentrate on cultivating a pure and personal relationship with Jesus. He wants to walk with us. Not ahead of us. Not behind us. With us. He wants to be right by our side in the fire and in the fight. But He also wants us to prioritize purity. He inhabits the praises of His people, but He doesn’t want to inhabit idolatrous praise. He desires pure and holy praise.

Getting very practical, begin to pray short prayers consistently throughout your day. Many people think prayer has to happen only in the morning or the evening, or maybe around mealtime. Instead, shift into praying nonstop. It doesn’t have to be much—a few words, a sentence here or there. It’s more about alignment than about paragraphs of right-sounding words. Again, God wants to be with you and there are few better practices to safeguard against your idols than being with God.

Lastly, if you truly want to dethrone your idols, you’re going to need to replace them with something greater. We mentally know that only God deserves to be on the throne of our hearts and is worthy of our total worship. But how do we convince our hearts of that truth? We reflect on and are grateful for His goodness.

Idolatry has not disappeared from the human heart and the opportunity to misdirect our worship will always tempt the souls of mankind. But we have something more precious than all the idols of the world could ever supply. A real and tangible relationship with the God of all things, all times, and all glories.

And when we strive, through His Spirit, to savor that relationship, our affections will surely follow.

Scripture References

15Do not love the world or anything in the world. If anyone loves the world, love for the Father is not in them.
16For everything in the world—the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life—comes not from the Father but from the world.
17The world and its desires pass away, but whoever does the will of God lives forever.
5Put to death, therefore, whatever belongs to your earthly nature: sexual immorality, impurity, lust, evil desires and greed, which is idolatry.
6Because of these, the wrath of God is coming.
20Such a person feeds on ashes; a deluded heart misleads him;

he cannot save himself, or say,

“Is not this thing in my right hand a lie?”

Jesus Comforts His Disciples

1

“Do not let your hearts be troubled. You believe in God
; believe also in me.
2
My Father’s house has many rooms; if that were not so, would I have told you that I am going there to prepare a place for you?
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And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am.
4
You know the way to the place where I am going.”

Jesus the Way to the Father

5Thomas said to him, “Lord, we don’t know where you are going, so how can we know the way?”

6Jesus answered,

“I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.
7
If you really know me, you will know
my Father as well. From now on, you do know him and have seen him.”

8Philip said, “Lord, show us the Father and that will be enough for us.”

9Jesus answered:

“Don’t you know me, Philip, even after I have been among you such a long time? Anyone who has seen me has seen the Father. How can you say, ‘Show us the Father’?
10
Don’t you believe that I am in the Father, and that the Father is in me? The words I say to you I do not speak on my own authority. Rather, it is the Father, living in me, who is doing his work.
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Believe me when I say that I am in the Father and the Father is in me; or at least believe on the evidence of the works themselves.
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Very truly I tell you, whoever believes in me will do the works I have been doing, and they will do even greater things than these, because I am going to the Father.
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And I will do whatever you ask in my name, so that the Father may be glorified in the Son.
14
You may ask me for anything in my name, and I will do it.

Jesus Promises the Holy Spirit

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“If you love me, keep my commands.
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And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another advocate to help you and be with you forever—
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the Spirit of truth. The world cannot accept him, because it neither sees him nor knows him. But you know him, for he lives with you and will be
in you.
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I will not leave you as orphans; I will come to you.
19
Before long, the world will not see me anymore, but you will see me. Because I live, you also will live.
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On that day you will realize that I am in my Father, and you are in me, and I am in you.
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Whoever has my commands and keeps them is the one who loves me. The one who loves me will be loved by my Father, and I too will love them and show myself to them.”

22Then Judas (not Judas Iscariot) said, “But, Lord, why do you intend to show yourself to us and not to the world?”

23Jesus replied,

“Anyone who loves me will obey my teaching. My Father will love them, and we will come to them and make our home with them.
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Anyone who does not love me will not obey my teaching. These words you hear are not my own; they belong to the Father who sent me.

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“All this I have spoken while still with you.
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But the Advocate, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, will teach you all things and will remind you of everything I have said to you.
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Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.

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“You heard me say, ‘I am going away and I am coming back to you.’ If you loved me, you would be glad that I am going to the Father, for the Father is greater than I.
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I have told you now before it happens, so that when it does happen you will believe.
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I will not say much more to you, for the prince of this world is coming. He has no hold over me,
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but he comes so that the world may learn that I love the Father and do exactly what my Father has commanded me.

“Come now; let us leave.

21For although they knew God, they neither glorified him as God nor gave thanks to him, but their thinking became futile and their foolish hearts were darkened.
22Although they claimed to be wise, they became fools
23and exchanged the glory of the immortal God for images made to look like a mortal human being and birds and animals and reptiles.

A Living Sacrifice

1Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship. 2Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.

Humble Service in the Body of Christ

3For by the grace given me I say to every one of you: Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but rather think of yourself with sober judgment, in accordance with the faith God has distributed to each of you. 4For just as each of us has one body with many members, and these members do not all have the same function, 5so in Christ we, though many, form one body, and each member belongs to all the others. 6We have different gifts, according to the grace given to each of us. If your gift is prophesying, then prophesy in accordance with your faith; 7if it is serving, then serve; if it is teaching, then teach; 8if it is to encourage, then give encouragement; if it is giving, then give generously; if it is to lead, do it diligently; if it is to show mercy, do it cheerfully.

Love in Action

9Love must be sincere. Hate what is evil; cling to what is good. 10Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves. 11Never be lacking in zeal, but keep your spiritual fervor, serving the Lord. 12Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer. 13Share with the Lord’s people who are in need. Practice hospitality.

14Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse. 15Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn. 16Live in harmony with one another. Do not be proud, but be willing to associate with people of low position. Do not be conceited.

17Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everyone. 18If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone. 19Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: “It is mine to avenge; I will repay,” says the Lord. 20On the contrary:

“If your enemy is hungry, feed him;

if he is thirsty, give him something to drink.

In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head.”

21Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.

13For if you live according to the flesh, you will die; but if by the Spirit you put to death the misdeeds of the body, you will live.

Jake Daghe
Jake Daghe
Jake Daghe is a theology teacher and writer at Passion City Church. He is an avid learner and has written widely in topics such as faith, professional development, and leadership. Jake lives in Atlanta, GA with his wife Lindsey, and their twin girls. He enjoys diner coffee, The Inklings, board games, and visiting as many National Parks as possible with his family.